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Sleep at 5.30am
Ytd sleep at 5am. hahas.. Can sleep lah.. Was toking to my Huei Jing darling & Yuan Chuan Gor. Was chatting abt love life lor. Their end solution is ‘Depend on the girl now.U should tell him how u feel’. Haha. Den Huei Jing darling slept at 3 + am hahas.. We don’t know whether we should let the guy take the initistive first or us? Guys,nowaday a useless. =p hahas.. Den Jiu tok to my gor lor. hahas.. I like gor de personal message. “If you love something, set it free; if it comes backs it's yours, if it doesn't, it never was.” Yah,I agree with this line. Love can’t be forced. Even if forced there is no outcome in the end. It is just hurting you even more. So,I started the convo with gor lo,
Me: For a guy who never been into relationship b4 is he stupid or dumb?
He: Hahahs, i supposed he's quite lousy when it comes to relationship even though he may watch all those dramas, real life examples of relationship. When it comes to the real thing,he confirm needs some time to think what he needs to do for example, if he likes this girl, but he's afraid to say it out. Most of the guys will sure wait , until the girl really hint .. (quite pathetic thou),then he starts to say it out. If not, he might just be waiting there all along. Yeah, but i cant say for all guys. Some of them kisiao one, very daring , straight ask for stead or something.
Me: What if he start to avoid?
He: If he starts to avoid the girl, means maybe he change target, or he gave up. But,there's always a chance for him to like that girl back.
Me: How? He always game.
He: Maybe,more hints? You think about it too,if the guy really likes the girl.He wouldn't miss any chance of talking to that girl if he choose game over girl,then no choice lor, that is his character.
Me: Orh. Complicated.
He: Hahahas, its easy to see a guy's character and whether is he WORTH to be your boyfriend.
Me: Somehow i think tat he know that the girl like him.
He: Well if he knows, he should be doing something to win that girl's heart right. If so far there's nothing to be heard or seen that things were specially done for that girl,most probably he's not interested.
Then i start talk about the outing ah
He: Probably he's using the friend as like some distraction or something.Cause u said b4 already the guy never go in to relationship b4. Usually first timer needs someone just to be there to make him feel more comfortable when the girl is around.That is what i guess why he brings his friend along.
Me: But the girl never talk.
He: Hahahs.The girl also don't know how to start the convo right
Me: YAHYAHYAHYAH!
He: Well, if the girl is the one who always starts the convo first, It means the guy very useless =x
Me: Yah! True!
He: But seriously, either he's totally uninterested, or he just don't have the guts to show his feelings. And furthermore, if he avoids the girl, plays game when the girl is free to chat.I would guess he's not interested instead of not having the guts
Me: Even he send her home also never talk. Hahas.
He: Rmb, the guy is first timer. So i guess, he doesn't really know how to start the convo with the girl too. If can you try to start lo. Sometimes the guy really needs something to let them start the ball rolling. So maybe after the first convo with him (which the girl starts first) he might be the one initiating since then
Me: The guy know tat the gal dun like him smoke outing his peep ask him smoke he look at the gal
He: You think about it. if he doesn't like the girl , he wouldn't need to find someone to go with him. Secondly, if he doesn't like the girl, he would remembered what the girl had said to him
like " i don't like it when u smoke " But he did remembered about the girl not liking him to smoke.So he looked at the girl.Might be a hint ;D that he thinks for the girl.
Me: Den why his attitude change after the outing?
He: Maybe he realised he doesnt like the girl after all not his type , or he's not ready but still, he might have some other reasons to avoid.
guy = nv been in a r/s b4
Means he doesn't know how to socialise well with girls too. furthermore, if his attitude has been changed, his actions will change too. if the guy really tend to be restless, most probably he would not start any convo first. maybe, listen well, he changes because he wants the girl not to like him its a possibility. Cause he doesnt wanna hurt the girl feelings, a more polite and clever way to say no. so maybe its like he wants the girl to hate the guy.So the girl would give up on him
Me: What if the girl wan wait?
He: 1.Waste time 2.Waste time 3. Waste time.Rmb i said the waiting time can be solved very quickly or slowly.depends on the girl now
Me: Why everybody say depend on the girl?
He: yeah, the guy is obviously not doing anything. if the guy have been more initiative , then nobody would say it depends on the girl.hahahas, seriously, i wouldn't go for that guy.
Me: End up is the gal jio him?
He: Yupps.Useless Dude.
Hahas… Yalor,useless dude. hahas.. he is super dumb lah. hahas.. after the whole convo,I feel better le. ^^ Slept at 530am. And mama woke mi up at 730am.-.- She woke mi up just to accompany her to market. Cox having guest later on. Hahas. | Labels: Loves
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